When I wrote an article about apportioning blames where necessary— as you continue to work on yourself and move on, this, right here— this statement was exactly what I meant.
It didn’t mean we shouldn’t take responsibility. But It’s very hard to relinquish all the nonsense we were forced to engulf about ourselves while navigating life on a healthier adult level.
Rather It’s best to recognize the cause, why, what where and use that to spring into action— so that we don’t relapse into another similar abuse.
Thank you so much for this!