What It Means To Love

To love sometimes also means to be afraid

Since you have to totally learn to be in someone else’s life as they are in yours.

To love means you hurt

Because when you open your heart and body to someone else, you somewhat lose the total control over what might happen to them.

To love means to openness to disagreements

There are many times where fights and arguments abound. And the only thing you left feeling for someone whom you love, at that point, is the nuanced version. You can‘t dislike whom you didn’t like in the first place.

To love means to accommodate

And acceptance precedes accommodation. When you can accept someone, it becomes easier to accommodate them. Which is also a sign of tolerating them. Love will make you condone your worst pet peeves.

To love means to love

Sometimes all it really takes to love is love and get on with the relationship. Taking it one step at a time. One act of surrendering at a time. One hurt at a time. One forgiveness at a time. One dislike at a time. One act of tolerance at a time. Until you’re left with no option but to love ALL the time.



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Comet N.

Comet N.


A girl who writes & addresses toxic hidden agenda in the form of topical issues whilst digesting their relative life lessons. I can't alone— It's a ‘let's all’.