This is one of the most beautiful write-ups I’ve read in a while. You truly made it easy to digest and almost tempting to not want to heal from our trauma lol. But I loved the part where you buttressed that healing isn’t necessarily a decision to make consciously. You related with people like me who suffered emotional neglect while growing up, in so many ways. And for that, and many more (obviously, judging by the excellence), I’m truly grateful.