Making a Fuss Does Not Guarantee Success
Making a fuss sometimes is childish. We’re adamantly saying that success or the things we desire must come to us at all costs. This sense of entitlement is not entirely bad until we blow things out of proportion with our attitude about them — given when things do not go our way for example.
I’ve heard numerous stories from different people who waited on life and some others who made a fuss for several hopes to come to fruition. And I realized that at the end of the day, destiny is orchestrated in a way that must come to fulfillment no matter how much we fuss.
But first, why do we fuss?
We make a fuss as a way to take or get back in control of things that pertain to the lives we want. We think by making a fuss we’re somehow working hard. We think it’s a reverse way of asking the Universe for what we want without saying the words in specific terms. Making a fuss makes us glad we’re doing what we can to get our destinies to come to fruition. Something big, something great to occur in the end.
This is majorly why we make a fuss.
But making a fuss does not guarantee success.
Just because you’ve strived to get what you want does not mean you’ll get it — especially in the manner you envisaged.
You might get a delay, but it’s not a denial. You might face many obstacles on the way and still end up not achieving the exact thing you hoped for. This just means there was a greater purpose to the one you thought for yourself. The one that will mold you into a particular person first.
Do you know that many times when we don’t get what we want it’s because we aren’t as prepared to get those things? That means that some of the journeys we embark on sometimes are to help bring us up mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually for the said feat. So that when it’s time we won’t be learning to handle those things instead.
Making a fuss only adds salt to the injury.
Dispensing energy in thoughts words and actions toward achieving our goals is arduous enough to want to compound it with fussing about it.
Yes, it’s valid to wonder, be moody, sad, and downcast from certain ventures not panning out the way you want them. But it becomes a self-punishment when you refuse to acknowledge these feelings as only meaning that you have passion for what you crave. Because when you choose to dwell on the setbacks or inevitable, that becomes the only thing you see. And that can obstruct your ability to finally achieve what you truly want.
Making a fuss doesn’t influence your destiny
What will be will be. No amount of tears, fights, complaints, sleeplessness, or isolation will halt what is in store for you. What that will do is exhaust the marvelous energy you’ll be needing to welcome the arrival of good things in your life for the future. Instead, it begs the point of fussing about something out of your control. Which warrants that you exercise some patience and hope those good things will not escape you no matter what. Ridding fuss but embracing the power of the Universe and what God can do means that you’ve accepted that your destiny will come to fulfillment and it won’t be marred by a negative force or energy.
It’s okay to worry about what the future holds. It’s very okay to shed tears when it looks like you’re stuck. It’s normal to wonder why things are panning out the way they are for you although you hoped otherwise. But it’s noteworthy to remember that making a fuss and attempting to gain control over such things will only deplete the resources we have to keep pushing. All we can do is do our part and wait and see how things unfold. By working hard, working smart, persisting, praying, being patient, helping, and wishing others well. The God you serve/ the Universe will surely reward you with positive outcomes in the end. Not because you arrived but because your destiny was already orchestrated to pan out beautifully to your favor — even though you may not believe it at first. Even though it may not have been your initial plan.
Trust your energy, trust yourself. Trust the Universe. And if you believe in God, surely trust him too.
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