Listicle of Rectified Misconceptions You Want to Know

Comet N.
2 min readAug 4, 2021

Heads up: Most of these misconceived words may inherently appear mutually exclusive. And are solely based on my experience and with other people thus far. I like to refer to them as the twists and turns of life.

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Here they are:

  • The world demands from you realness, but when you show it, they revert to modesty.
  • Assertiveness isn’t disrespecting.
  • Being brutally honest, isn’t an insult.
  • Self-respect isn’t pride.
  • Self-pride isn’t egocentrism.
  • Meekness isn’t weakness.
  • Silence isn’t stupidity.
  • Quietness isn’t shyness.
  • Words don’t equate to strength.
  • Strength isn’t physical.
  • Words don’t mean informed.
  • Being informed doesn’t mean knowledgeability.
  • Action isn’t wisdom.
  • Knowledge isn’t wisdom.
  • Lack of show-off doesn’t translate to lacking.
  • Modesty isn’t foolishness.
  • Disease isn’t a sickness.
  • Sickness isn’t an illness.
  • Mental health differs from emotional health.
  • Depression isn’t retardation.
  • Quietness isn’t peace.
  • Noise isn’t peace.
  • Strange doesn’t mean evil.
  • Familiarity doesn’t mean relatability.
  • Family doesn’t mean friendship.
  • Friendship doesn’t mean love.
  • Family isn’t always blood.
  • Blood doesn’t mean forever.
  • Love doesn’t stand alone.
  • Love is optional.
  • Love is bittersweet.
  • Hate isn’t evil.
  • Marriage isn’t all.
  • Having kids is optional.
  • Favor doesn’t mean they care.
  • Care can be obligatory.
  • A company of people doesn’t mean togetherness.
  • Company doesn’t exclude loneliness.
  • Aloneness isn’t loneliness.
  • Trust is earned.
  • Loyalty is by choice.
  • Contentment doesn’t mean buoyancy.
  • Buoyancy doesn’t mean extravagance.
  • Spendings don’t mean buoyancy.
  • Luck is random.
  • Favor isn’t random.
  • Education is first.
  • Education doesn’t guarantee a job.
  • A job doesn’t guarantee success.
  • Success isn’t measured by wealth.
  • Health is wealth.
  • Richness isn’t wealthiness.
  • The rich cries.
  • The poor laughs.
  • Happiness isn’t a destination.
  • The “purpose” isn’t a destination.
  • You First isn’t selfish.
  • You Always is Narcissism.
  • Self-care isn’t selfish.
  • Self-care isn’t selfless.
  • Lending isn’t giving.
  • Giving doesn’t translate to generosity.
  • Helping is generosity.
  • Spirituality isn’t a myth.
  • Nature is powerful.
  • The Universe sways.
  • The brain isn’t full of positives.
  • Life isn’t linear.
  • Peace is a choice.

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Comet N.

A girl who writes & addresses toxic hidden agenda in the form of topical issues whilst digesting their relative life lessons. I can't alone— It's a ‘let's all’.