If You have to Zero your Emotions, then Quit.
See your emotions as different colors of balloons needed to beautify the heart collectively.
Relationships are all about our emotions. At first, carnality may have drawn us to our respective partners, but over time, that attraction compounded into a deeper commitment. The sole reason for that is that our emotions got involved. We began to feel things- jealousy when they’re spending more time with others than us, down when they don’t pick up or return our calls soon, and sadness when they mess up. And so forth.
Why do we suddenly have to remove emotions from the equation?
The very thing that made up the relationship. The substance that added value to the relationship whereby we can confidently say we felt loved, adored, and so on. The reason is that it complicates things less.
Emotions drive our relationships, but they can complicate things in relationships as well. When you start to feel like your emotions are getting in the way, then it’s really time to reevaluate the essence of being with your significant other. Because our emotions are meant to guide us and hence, strengthen our union with others rather than complicate them.
If you have to zero your emotions, then you have to quit.
There are favorable emotions and unfavorable ones. The former is there to help us be propelled towards each other even during our downtimes, whereas the unfavorable ones tell us what the problems are and where they’re coming from. Our ability to navigate the unfavorable ones such as by comparing them with the favorable ones help us determine whether it’s worth it to still be in it. However, when you feel like you should give it all up, go numb, become apathetic, and be less concerned, that is the very point where you should quit.
As messy and complicated as our emotions make things, it is the beauty of a relationship. No one can afford not to feel, or to feel and not express themselves while dating someone they love. It all comes with its pros and cons and our ability to embrace it all means we are ready to be in the said relationship. Otherwise, it’s worth walking away when you are forced to switch it all off.
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