Hi Ayodeji, thank you for this inspiring piece. It’s inspiring because you practically highlighted most of characteristics I exhibit in my nice girl mode — which is every time by the way — that I’m trying to rid. And seeing all you’ve written just means I’m on the right track both with accepting that it’s been the “nice girl” syndrome all along and devicing ways to withdraw from them. It’s a never-again for me from now henceforth. Thank you once again.