You have never really lived until you’ve done something for someone who can never repay you~ John Bunyan — Kindness isn’t overrated contrary to what some may think. It is one of the biggest virtues in the Universe. Talking about kindness gives me the chills as I’m not sure I’m “fit” enough to talk about it. Also because I wasn’t taught by anyone how important it was and how…

Our attention is snared by our thoughts which are heavily influenced by our beliefs and values. As a result, we create the type of mindset we need to achieve the things we’ve slated. Our attention says a lot about our personality. Its value is measured by our intentions. If you…

You Respect Their Belongings Even in their Absence — The word respect is ambiguous and often thrown around mindlessly, but it is one of the essential traits to have. In other words, respect is something that can be acquired when it’s missing from one’s humane toolkits. Even though respect is essential, being respectful is the real action behind that…

It is usually in small things we connect — It’s always the little things that matter. The part that gets easily ignored and forgotten. Before anything got as big as it sounds; be it a promotion, considering somebody a best friend, a designer, or reaching the apex of other statuses, it all started from somewhere. That somewhere is the…

Stop backing down from utilizing the space people give you — Space, silence, and solitude cannot be overemphasized enough in their magnitude of importance in many sectors of our lives. Only people who fear growth, development, maturity, and the likes would evade space. Space is an opportunity, a room, or a time out to one’s self. Sometimes it’s given, other times…

Do not wish and attempt to change them — When it comes to relationships (of any kind), we tend to make the worst mistake of treating people based on how we wish they were rather than dealing with their true nature — or treating others based on our personality rather than theirs. …

Life is understood backward and lived forward — Living is like a zig-zag pattern. We often reach to the past and return to the present, and thus, materialize our future. But we connote reminisce, retrospect, from the past as ill-living and this is not always the case. The past is a part of the experiences we’ve lived. Discarding…

Spirituality is tested in our ability to believe that our prayers serve as retribution to those who dehumanize us. — Spirituality is everything. It helps us decipher lots of things we would otherwise worry about aren’t happening in the physical ways we expect. Everyone has at least one foe knowingly or unknowingly. Someone who hates on us either online or offline. …

Resisting some pain and suffering can be a form of self-sabotage contrary to self-care. — Weight issues, acne problems, mental illness, lack of good tribe, lack of freedom to be yourself, you name it… Does it sound like what you’ve always struggled with? You’ve probably heard it over and again — the pain comes with a purpose, life is full of ups and downs, and…