Your desensitization to time matters a lot in some aspects. — Time is a scale of measurement of a lot of things to do with our life and living. It helps to communicate what part of the day we are on, it’s used to indicate what month of the year it is and hence, what year we’re currently on. But in…

Cut yourself some slack sometimes — Recently, I’ve been nagged a lot mentally, emotionally, and certainly physically too as I navigate the world of my toddler son. Being a first-time mom has been nothing fun like I always perceived from others. At first, I would be so hard on myself for not knowing and doing any…

When it comes to relationships, several standard attributes and values are expected to keep pushing them forward. Outside the needed ones like open communication, understanding, some strong emotional feeling (love?), and so on, there are other subtle ones people don’t usually tell you about. They are silence and patience. Silence…

What we do when we are happy can be as bad as what we do when we are sad — Overindulgence is a sin. Too much of everything is bad. Whether it be when you are sad or happy. The common notion for me used to be that wearing your heart on your sleeve in both cases can never go wrong. I used to think being happy and showing it…

If I had a trophy, I would never let a thing dent it or come next to where I placed it. But since I don’t, I can only imagine how these Oscar and Grammy winners polish or treat their trophies. It’s a pretty big deal if you ask me. To…

What does your time say? — People say time is an illusion. Others believe the calendars of the year are just make-believe. Even more say that they don’t count the days, weeks, and months as so. Honestly, I could care less about how you choose to define what makes up the space or chance we’re utilizing…

1.) Amicability and lackluster — Good relationships are ambiguous to understand. What one terms good, could be toxic for another. What one terms good, could be outright loveless. You hear people say things like oh the relationship were good but just wasn’t for them or they loved their significant other, but not enough to be…

It doesn’t lie in our morals alone — I know one of the greatest traits a parent wants to imbibe in a child would be to learn how to be a good person. But oftentimes, that word becomes too ambiguous to comprehend what the true intentions of the parent are. Intentions differ from actions. So even though a…

Let me be. — Feelings are very tricky. You want to believe what you’re feeling is real and valid until someone else whom you believe equally “knows” you comes along and tells you otherwise. What do you do then? Your feelings change back to their perspective. While growing up, my emotions were rarely validated…